week 2 of dd1 being home

dd2 has been home for over a week now and is doing very well, she doesn't seem insecure at all.  She has asked a couple of times to go 'home' but its been very easy to persuade her other wise.  dh and I are strongly believing that she should stay with us now as she is settling in well and any further tooing and froing could be damaging to her. I am just so happy that things are going well.  

We had been going slowly with her because she had been so insecure but having had her settle in, i think it has given her time to see this family unit as her family unit.  in our minds, its done, why go back, how will that help?  obviously she will want what she knows.  And that is her other home, but she is able to understand i think.  She is so much more rational now.  She enjoys playing with dd2 and dd2 would miss her dearly if she went back.