Very improbable - a background

When you come from a home that is disorganised, cluttered, and often putrid, it can take a long time to shake that mess away. I was never the domestic type, I could cook, I could sort of iron, wash and fold clothes but I was always messy. I mean when everyone else in the house leaves mess it seems really pointless as a child and then teenager to pick up after yourself. There was little equity with chores in our household, so I was always felt it wasn't fair, wasn't fair that we kids were told to do everything. So it(chores) never felt like something you just do as part of a household, it was something we were made to do. I just don't feel like we were given the right basis for looking after ourselves and our future households. So I am in the process of breaking old habits and becoming an effective domestic engineer(housewife). I've come along way and I'd like to share some things here.